Many times people will take your kindness for weakness. This may happen in any setting home, work, even church. Speak your truth, stand firm on your beliefs, don't quarrel, if it is possible confront the offender, and disconnect from disrespect. When in doubt just kick people j/k.
It's not about their reaction, it's about you getting over victory of the mental trap -the devil is trying to set. He wants to be a squatter and rent space in your head for free folks. There are s